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 Post subject: Regarding member behaviour--READ
PostPosted: Wed Sep 16, 2009 8:59 pm
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I would like to remind members that as Buddies we would hope you do not bring our boards into disrepute by bad internet ettiquete.
We take a dim view on those members who are seen to be openly bullying, attacking and humiliating , alone or as part of a group on any other PUBLIC board. This behaviour is Trolling.
I would like to draw your attention to this post.

We have a very good reputation on the many Fan-Rings and Websites that we are a part of on the WWW. We want to and intend to, keep it that way.
Any bad behaviour, by a member who has posted more than 5 posts will be dealt with by a short ban. If the behaviour continues than a perma ban will be put in place.

If someone annoys you by breaking rules, elswhere, rise above it and do the decent thing, report and ignore them to your ISP.

If you feel that you cannot post alongside people that are continually causing you upset, put them on ignore. Retaliation pushes you right down to their level. By joining in a gang of bullies makes you worse than them.

Here is some good advice.

If somebody on the WWW grinds your gears to the brink of pushing you into bad behaviour LEAVE. It's obviously upsetting you. Why stay? If you stay it's because you enjoy the conflict and as such makes you their equal.
(dont bother telling staff that, they did this first and then said that to a friend and blah blah- we have all heard that before in the playground)

Do not stay on a board or forum and form a gang and become a bully.

Do not laugh and take the mickey out of someone else because your friends are doing it and you want to be with the, IN CROWD.

Dont humiliate and make other people feel upset and or cry.

Other posters are as human as you. You may not like them but they do not deserve to be treated as dirt any more than you do.

If A BOARD upsets you and hurts you to the extent you need to retaliate LEAVE, for goodness sakes, show some dignity. If you decide to stay then look in the mirror, there is the real bully, the real troublemaker.

Thanks for your time.

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 Post subject: Re: Regarding member behaviour--READ
PostPosted: Wed Sep 16, 2009 10:39 pm
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Noted, big guy.


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I only post on here , gnomedeck (IT) and a graphic designers forum. Stopped posting on Penny 18th Aug and have at last broken a 5 year AOL addiction. . Applause please!
I agree that people should be pulled up for trolling. If any active member from here does not follow forum etiquette then squash them I say. Come to think of it where's Perbestyk these days, YOOOO HOO I miss you, our little Swedish trolly :roll:

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 Post subject: Re: Regarding member behaviour--READ
PostPosted: Thu Sep 17, 2009 7:47 pm
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But did you stop reading you little devil, thats what I want to know. I stopped posting on UK Chatterbox in March but I am still compelled to read there. :-85


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I am the guilty only of reading here and sometimes the Webmall.

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 Post subject: Re: Regarding member behaviour--READ
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Hey Jesus, I used to read at the webmall too. But then I stopped lol. I liked it there but this is far more friendlier.


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Out of all the forums that I moderate now, and the ones going back over the years, this one has to be the calmest and nicest one of them all.
You have a smashing group of guys here with almost zero conflict. With such a wide range of cultures you have done a fantastic job of keeping it clean. Well done Admin Team. You really do deserve Kudos.

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 Post subject: Re: Regarding member behaviour--READ
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yes they do, i agree :) :grin:

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привет :chap




Спасибо и до свидания

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 Post subject: Re: Regarding member behaviour--READ
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Aye well said dizzy,
your comments are 'right on the button'.
It even spills over onto paltalk,
never a friday nite goes by without some mention of
aol or penny stocks,
there's always someone who has said something about someone else.
and i always tell them,
if there's people there who annoy u ,
if u dont like him/her/them, then why keep going back.unless as you say,
they enjoy the conflict.
I guess some people just thrive on it ,
as they probably do in real life also.
But me personally, i can do without it.

and ur right as well sam,
the admins in here do a good job, yourself included.
keep up the good work.

och aye the noo....

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:roll: :roll: ay ay ay :roll:

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Спасибо и до свидания

Easy for yu to say :chap

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 Post subject: Re: Regarding member behaviour--READ
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whats this paltalk and penny stocks?

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Penny stocks is a US message board on AOL and it stinks to high hell with argumentative posters, some of who live there, so don't bother going visiting. By the way , very much like hillbillies they dont like strangers in them there parts lol.
Its also this : http://whatarepennystocks.com/
Paltalk is a service that allows users to communicate via instant messaging, voice and video chat. It offers thousands of chat rooms and the ability for users to create their own on any .topic. Paltalk is available in two formats: As a download PaltalkScene and web based no download PaltalkExpress. My daughter uses it and enjoys it. Its good for quiz's, music and chat. PS SHE DOESNT USE PENNYBOARD LOL


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I dont troll, and ive also never been in pal talk. Saying that , I was always given to believe that The woman who owns the pal room bans any talk what so ever about the penny board Jimmy, so how can it be talked about every week? Now thats a strange old thing. Like I say, I doont use pal and its probably just as well if the moaners are prattling on about the pennyboard ...................................................


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